There is probably a million indications that someone is cheating. And honestly, when taken individually, single things may not be that big of a deal. I would say, when your spouse is cheating, your gut is your first clue.
You can then decide if you want to meet for something more.
The Affair Site makes it so much easier to start a fling.
However, just make sure you don't get carried away - getting discovered is not a good look! It spices things up knowing that it's something known only between you and the other party.
Some people also get quite a thrill out of the sneaking around, as well as meeting in hotels.
(My thought, the seats can fold down and there’s nowhere to hide a giant car seat from a hookup, kinda a buzz kill to be so obviously reminded of children when your trying to get it on…) #20. I guess that was a smokescreen because it looks like hes sleeping with at least two of the women in his office and has been picking up girls with his buddy. And for the four years he was “single” before we got together, all he did was have one night stands. I’m sure hes slept with way more people than he told me, especially since I found out later that the four he told me originally only counted his “real” relationships, not his one night stands. Its been two days since I found out and I’m still shakey and sick.
All he can talk about is how much the women at work piss him off and how much he “disapproves” of his buddy that he hangs out with all the time and apparently pick up chicks with and his behavior. After I found that, there’s no more pretending its not going on. I should have started looking as soon as I figured out that’s whats wrong with him, but I seriously couldn’t do it. A lot of his friends have cheated on their wives and girlfriends.
There was no logical explanation of where it came from. I would also find it in the center console of his car on days we would switch vehicles, like he forgot it was in there.
And now he has changed the password on it so I don’t know what it is. Wont return my calls for hours when hes at work or out, but will text me back within minutes.
Something is off and its not just the big fight you just had about nothing, there is something else.
In my experience, we have always been rather relaxed, I have never really kept tabs on him or really mistrusted him in any way. He is on his phone, watching TV, ignoring the kids (for the most part), he pretty much ignores me. And then, at the same time, hes being SOOO nice to me. We had a newborn (like 2 weeks old) and instead of coming home at lunch, he would go out with the girls from work, every day.
In this situation, some additional romance can be just what you need to enable you to keep the marriage functioning.