I made him breakfast but he had to leave early for work.
Frankly, if you have a pulse, you’re going to have sex with the guy sooner or later.
So really, since it’s inevitable, the real concern is finding the “something more” that goes beyond just the sex. Listen, when you inspire a man to see you as a confident, fulfilled woman with plenty to offer other than physical pleasure, he doesn’t treat you like an option. When you have the mentality that you have one bargaining chip (sex) and that you should hold out because it will magically generate interest, you’re viewing sex as your one and only asset.
I decided not to text him again and give him space.
Two days later I noticed he had logged back into the dating site but had not looked at my profile.
People are entranced and captivated by someone who has an air of excitement, adventure, and pleasure to them.
While it can seem like men only want physical pleasure, what most really crave is a woman who reaches them on a deep and profound level.If a guy isn’t all that into you, but knows you’ll give it up on date #3, he’ll stick around long enough to get some booty then leave.His thought process is most likely, “Well, I wasted this much time with her…However, the part where we have sex and he withdraws happened.I’ve been totally cool about it, giving him all the space in the world, no calls, texts, emails.He was quite amourous but I put him off until a few dates later where I cooked dinner for him. I felt safe with him knowing he had said he wouldnt lie to me and he told me I was amazing in bed.